
Relatives and friends tell me I should learn to speak Chinese.
I am an ethnic Chinese who lives in the Philippines where I am fluent in the national language, Tagalog. I also am adept in English, which is my first & primary language. But I don’t speak Chinese; I never learned to.
I agree fluency in Chinese would have been a plus, but I’ve not done too bad with Tagalog and English.
There may have been lost opportunities for not learning to communicate in Chinese. But I believe my mastery in English had given me an edge in crunching contracts with clients and in debating technical & legal jargon with service providers & suppliers.
It would have been nice to be fluent in Chinese, but I don’t see the pressing necessity to learn.
I’m satisfied with the languages I know.