Aiming for Acceptance By Choosing Who Will Like You

Acceptance had become an economic necessity; a social media ‘like’ is a precious commodity, a metric that is a stepping stone to endorsements, to fame & fortune. 

Social acceptance is at the third (3rd) tier of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.  The first tier is physiological needs (e.g., food, water), the second is security (shelter, employment).  After social acceptance is the fourth tier:  esteem (recognition, respect).  The fifth and final tier is self-actualisation, in which Abraham Maslow described as the point individuals could realise the best of who they can be. 

You, however, determine how much satisfaction is enough. 

You can eat and drink without excess. 

You don’t need a big place to live in. 

And you don’t need that many likes, if you could relate well with family & friends.

You choose who will like you as much as whom you will like. 

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Since I started writing in 2019, I've written personal insights about supply chains, operations management, & industrial engineering. I have also delved in topics that cover how we deal with people, property, and service providers. My mission is to boost productivity via the problem-solving process, i.e., asking questions, developing criteria, exploring ideas. If you like what I write or disagree with what I say, feel free to like, dislike, comment, or if you have a lengthy discourse, email me at ellery_l@yahoo.com ; I'm also on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/ellery-samuel-lim-40b528b

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